How to Shop for a Minimalist
Minimalist Gift Ideas
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The cost of owning an item is more than the total you pay at checkout. Giving a gift always feels kind because you’ve spent money so a loved one doesn’t have to, but there is more to the cost than dollars. There is a cost to maintaining items (cleaning, storing, organizing, cleaning around the item) and there is the cost of space in your home.
After years of living in small apartments, I've become very aware “space” cost. Limited space forced me to become very intentional about what I own. I describe myself as an “aspiring minimalist” or “minimal-ish.” I’m not all the way there, but I try to be very mindful about what I own.
When someone I love asks “what do you want for your birthday/Christmas/Mother's Day?” My initial response is panic. All I can think about is sacrificing sweet sacred space in my home! But I've found a few things I'm ALWAYS happy and thankful to receive without the dreaded thoughts of “oh shoot, what do I do with this?”
I hope these five ideas will inspire you whether you're shopping for a minimalist or trying to answer the dreaded “what do you want” question.
Books
One of the best things my mom has done for me is to pass on her love of reading. I can never have too many books! Or better yet, Kindle books. I fell hard for my Kindle when I realized I can read an unlimited number of books that take up the space of one.
Here are a few books that make perfect gifts:
The Lazy Genius Way - this is a book about simplifying your life that every minimalist will LOVE (amazon.com | amazon.ca)
Cozy Minimalist Home - reading this will simplify decorating and help you find the balance between coziness and minimalism (amazon.com | amazon.ca)
Becoming and Beholding - a beautiful devotional book that serves as decor and spiritual enrichment (amazon.com | amazon.ca)
See Also: 5 must-read books for Christian moms
Or better yet, grab the minimalist-reader in your life a Kindle. This is the one I have (amazon.com | amazon.ca) and I will never go back!
Gift Cards
It may feel cold and in personal, but trust me, no one is ever disappointed by a gift card! Feel free to ask which stores she likes best, or choose something universal like Amazon! She may even use that gift card to buy Kindle books.
Consumables
Thankfully, my husband shares my view of gifts. You’d think this would make Christmas and anniversaries very boring, but it has become a fun challenge! We don't buy much for each other, but we do fill stockings for eachother at Christmas.
Our one stocking-stuffer-rule is this: consumables only. Of course, we end up with a lot of food items this way, but there are a lot of ways to get creative!
Consumable gift ideas:
beeswax candles
essential oils
natural soaps & lotions
coffee/tea
art supplies
wine
preserves
fancy cheeses
chocolate
gift certificates
adventures/outings together
Wishlist Items
I’m a slow purchaser. It takes me a long time to decide whether or not I want to devote space to a specific item and usually the desire passes or I forget all about it before I click the checkout button. I've started adding the item to a wishlist on Amazon, and now I always have an answer when someone needs a gift idea.
Encourage your loved ones to make their own Amazon wish list and share it with you! Or better yet, do it for them like I've done with my husband. When his birthday comes around, it can be hard to remember the obscure lighter or tool he told me he wanted 6 months ago, but storing that info on an Amazon list has been life-changing.
Experience/Outing
Plan an outing or a way to spend time together. You could take your friend out for lunch, buy them a coffee, or gift them a membership to the zoo or amusement park near you. Outings like this are a beautiful way to make memories and feed their desire for intentional time without taking up a precious spot in their home!
Final Thoughts
As tough as it can be to answer the dreaded “what do you want?” question, I'm always grateful when a loved one cares enough to let me speak into (read: control) their decision.
Ultimately, once a gift is given, it's out of your hands. When I'm on the receiving end, I try to appreciate the heart behind the gift even if I don't keep the item, and when I'm on the giving end, I have to work hard not to overthink whether the item will be useful or worthy of keeping.
If your loved one decides to re-gift or return something you chose for them, it's not a statement about you or your relationship. The item has served its purpose whether it stayed with them or not.
Happy gifting!
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